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How to attract love to yourself

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How to attract love to yourself

Imagine you're like this love magnet, wouldn't it be nice? Whether finding a relationship, dating, partnership, co-workers. You can get just about anyone to love you. Read on to find out how to attract love.


One thing to keep in mind is that love is an emotion that can be sparked in another person. You may make someone else love you or fall in love with you, in other words. Now, I'm not just talking about dating; I'm talking about having a boyfriend or a girlfriend, a husband or a wife. I'm referring to anyone. Finding a relationship, whether it's with a buddy, a partner in whatever you're doing, or a coworker. Dating? Maybe you just want more love in your life or more love contact. That's something you can do. By simply understanding what actions attract love, you can attract more of it or get more people to love you. Yes, you have the ability to attract love like a magnet.

According to scientific research, certain attributes attract love, and none of them necessitate any major or extreme changes or transformations, either physically or psychologically. It's merely a matter of incorporating these actions into your daily life to demonstrate those attributes that attract or magnetize love.

 

Smile: Did you know that smile is contagious, as they say?

According to research, humans have an instinct for facial mimicry, which allows them to feel empathy and even experience emotions for others. Unfortunately, the same is true for frowns. When you put a smile on your face, it causes those around you to smile as well. And studies demonstrate that your brain automatically converts what your body says into how you truly feel.

When someone is upset and sees you smiling at them and smiles back, the brain interprets this as a sign that they are happy or not so sad after all. Because only those who aren't concerned or depressed are able to smile. So when you smile, your brain tells you that you aren't as sad as you think and that you are happy, and you notice that the person suddenly forgets about his or her worries and is happy. Always wear a smile on your face and make others happy.

 

Laugh:

Laughter releases feel-good endorphins and can help reduce pain, in addition to a slew of other health advantages. Laughter enhances your attractiveness. Women are more drawn to guys who make them laugh, while men are more attracted to women who laugh at their jokes, according to research. Look around, and you'll see that this is true. You'll occasionally see girls swooning over or drawn to guys that make them laugh.

Other than making ladies laugh, you don't notice how terrific a guy is. Nonetheless, you'd notice ladies everywhere around him. Why? He makes them laugh, that's why. People love what makes them feel good, and he makes them feel good. Women, in particular, are drawn to things that make them laugh and smile.

Remember how the brain translates whatever you say on your face into how you really feel? It applies to laughter. When you can make someone smile, even if they aren't in a good mood, the brain tells them that they don't need to be unhappy.

They don't think about their troubles at that time, but rather react to what the translation of their expression says, and as a result, they are delighted to be around you. You'd have made them like you in a matter of seconds. Couples who laugh together have a longer and more enjoyable relationship. Make an effort to find more humor in your life. Find new ways to laugh, to make others laugh, and to exude attractiveness.

 

Gratitude:

Some people have a hard time putting this principle into practice. They prefer to be shown love or compassion first, such as by taking a gift or doing a kind act, before expressing gratitude. However, research suggests that being grateful first attracts love. In one study, showing thankfulness to others in a professional setting, such as the workplace, resulting in the recipient exhibiting more positive behavior and drive.

In another study, continuous expressions of gratitude in long-term partnerships were linked to higher relationship quality for both parties. For instance, a husband and wife who express gratitude to one another have a better long-term connection. When you express gratitude, you make the person you're expressing gratitude to be pleased, and they'll want to do something in return to earn that gratitude. They will be friendly and loving towards you. 

 

An optimistic mindset:

Gratitude, smiles, and laughter. All of this is indicative of a good mindset. As a result, it should come as no surprise that an optimistic outlook attracts love. According to studies, both men and women judge other people's physical attractiveness proportionately, based on their projected positive or bad attributes. Focus on the positive aspects of individuals and life, and you will exude positive characteristics.

Expecting terrible things from others or seeing unpleasant things from others is not always a good idea. Look for the good in them. Be content with them. You will radiate positive attributes if you laugh, smile, and express gratitude to them. When you retain a happy attitude, positive traits emerge spontaneously.

 

Take pleasure in the present:

Dwelling on the past and worrying about the future causes unnecessary fear and stress, which others notice and feel. People will not want to come close to you or interact with you if you are always worried or upset about past memories because you are unlikely to react positively.

Worrying and being worried all of the time pushes people away from you. However, living in the present moment relieves you of your weight. You appear happier, calmer, and more appealing. People will want to get up close and personal with you.

They will want to engage in conversation with you, have a good time with you. You offer your time and attention to others around you when you live in the present moment. When you're with them, you put your troubles aside and spend time with them, doing things with them, talking with them, and participating in activities with them. They'll always want to be near you, and they'll adore you. 

 

Apart from meditation and other thoughtful practices, all of the aforementioned will assist you in becoming more attractive. Smiling, smiling, expressing thanks, maintaining a happy attitude, and appreciating the current moment all help to calm the numerous mental fluctuations that rob you of the joys of the moment. 

Do the five things listed above on a daily basis, and you'll notice that all of the other things will start to fall into place more easily, and love and kindness will begin to flood your life.

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Mustapha Nasiru

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